About
A little about me.
Corporate by day, playful by night
By day, I have a career I genuinely enjoy. It’s complex, engaging, and gives me plenty of opportunities to flex the part of my brain that enjoys solving difficult problems while helping people find a practical way forward.
Think less corporate enemies-to-lovers, more making a frustrated colleague feel heard, relieved, and quietly pleased that somebody has actually figured out what to do next. My work plays a small but tangible part in making life better for Victorians, and that matters to me.
All of which is to say: I know my way around a spreadsheet, a slide deck, and a presentation. Utopia, anyone?
But you probably didn’t come here to talk about spreadsheets.
Outside of that world, I wanted to create something much more personal: a space where women can enjoy good company, attention, and a little escapism without having to surrender their sense of control or safety in order to find it.
Why I’m here
I think there’s a space for women who want something a little different.
Maybe you spend most of your life being capable, organised, and responsible. Perhaps you manage people, deadlines, clients, a household, or simply the endless logistics of being an adult. Sometimes it’s nice to hand some of that mental load to someone else for an evening.
That doesn’t mean giving up control—quite the opposite, really.
I want you to be able to decide where the evening begins, what interests you, and what your boundaries are, while still leaving enough room for spontaneity, adventure, and the unexpected.
Mystery and the thrill of an escort can be exciting. Unknown risk doesn’t need to be part of it.
I spent years thinking about doing this before actually taking the plunge. Part of that hesitation came from having a professional life and reputation that I care deeply about. Eventually, I realised that the thing I value so much for myself—privacy—is something I can offer my clients as well.
Discretion, therefore, isn’t a marketing phrase to me. It is fundamental to how I work.
When the evening ends, we both return to our lives—hopefully with a very good memory to take with us.
What I bring
I’ve worked across more worlds than my current corporate life might suggest: teaching and tutoring, hospitality—including corporate suites—and outdoor retail and advisory work, among them.
They may seem unrelated, but there is a common thread running through all of them: service, attention, and understanding people.
I know how to listen. I know how to read a room. I know when conversation needs a little help and when silence is perfectly comfortable. I’m interested in people, and I enjoy creating an experience around the person I’m actually with rather than working from a rehearsed script.
There is sincerity in that, but there is also a healthy amount of silliness.
I have no intention of becoming so polished that I stop being me.
I’m also much better one-on-one than I am competing with a room full of voices—which, conveniently, suits this kind of company rather well.
Discretion & first meetings
Your safety matters to me, and so does mine.
For that reason, I meet all first-time clients in an open public setting or at a public event. That part is non-negotiable.
A coffee, drink, gallery, event, or other public activity gives us both the opportunity to meet without pressure. We can talk, see whether we actually enjoy each other’s company, and decide what, if anything, we would like to do next.
There is no expectation that meeting me commits you to anything further.
Chemistry is much better when neither person has to manufacture it.
Chemistry & boundaries
I prefer getting to know someone rather than trying to skip straight to physical familiarity.
For me, physical intimacy is something that develops through rapport, mutual comfort, and clear communication. I’m happy to talk openly about boundaries as we get to know each other and decide together what feels right.
There are some things I do not offer, but I would much rather have an honest conversation than leave either of us relying on assumptions.
That means you know what to expect from me, and I know what to expect from you.
I think that makes everything that follows considerably more enjoyable.
If you’re unsure whether something is within my boundaries, ask. Clear communication is attractive.
Safety & substances
I don’t use illicit drugs, and I don’t participate in or remain in an arrangement where they are being actively used.
If illicit drugs are being used during our time together, I will end the arrangement for that day. This isn’t about judgement; it is simply a boundary I need in place for my own safety and comfort.
More broadly, I reserve the right to end an encounter at any time if I feel unsafe or seriously uncomfortable for any reason.
If an encounter is ended because my safety boundaries, substance policy, or other clearly communicated boundaries have been breached, payments already made for the booking are non-refundable.
If you’re unsure whether something might be an issue, please ask beforehand. I would always rather clarify something in advance than have it become uncomfortable on the day.
Off the clock
I am something of a jack-of-all-trades: nerdy like a spreadsheet and occasionally useful like a utility belt.
Music
Music follows me almost everywhere. I know a little about a lot and am impressively mediocre at actually playing most of it.
It’s my constant companion in the car and when I’m out walking, and I am always willing to be talked into karaoke. Singing in local and university choirs helped get me out of my shell as a young adult and eventually onto the stage at Carols by Candlelight.
Camping & hiking
I’ve been hiking and camping for years, both solo and with friends.
I have very fond memories of disappearing into nature by myself, as well as the completely different experience of camping with a group of people you like enough to tolerate after several days without proper plumbing.
One of my all-time favourite experiences was Barrington Tops: once just before I graduated, with company, and again afterwards, solo. But that’s a story in its own right.
Once upon a very long time ago, I worked at Mountain Designs, which only encouraged the habit.
Coding
Yes, I am a bit of a coding monkey.
Professional developer? Not quite. Persistent enough to disappear down a technical rabbit hole until something works? Absolutely.
Give me a tangible problem involving hardware and software, and there is a reasonable chance I’ll keep pulling at the thread until I figure out how to make the two talk to each other. Talk to me about solar panels and batteries, and now you have a strategist on your hands—not a salesman, I promise.
At one point, I went freelance for a few months so I could focus fully on developing a digital-dice program designed to integrate into RPGs. It never quite eventuated, and eventually I found my way into my current role.
One day, I’d like to return to it.
Gaming
I have a weakness for RPGs and exploration-heavy games.
Do I play as much as I used to? No, because I know perfectly well that “I’ll play for an hour” can turn into several before I notice.
These days, my happy medium is YouTube: Let’s Plays, retrospectives, documentaries, and people spending three hours explaining the development history of a game I haven’t touched in years.
If that is also your thing, you have permission to talk to me about it for far too long.
P.S. Latest appreciation: Outer Wilds. Echoes of the Eye is beautiful too, but kinda stressful, tbh.
A little more personally
I’m happily married and have been with my partner for just shy of a decade. This isn’t something I’ve sprung on them; they’ve known about this idea from the very beginning—literally from the first day we met.
We’ve accumulated quite a life together: interstate and international moves, postgraduate degrees, travel, the ordinary challenges of building a life with someone, and even therapy—which I recommend far more enthusiastically than most people recommend restaurants.
I think learning about yourself makes it much easier to understand other people.
That perspective informs quite a lot of how I approach this work.